“I am NOT a People Pleaser, I just want everybody to be happy at MY own expense”

Someone very wise once said to me, "Ronia your weakness is that you are TOO nice and that you want EVERYONE to like you! " I absolutely valued their honesty (because brutal honesty is rare ~ just saying) and this took me on a whole journey of discovering what does Too Nice actually look like vs… Continue reading “I am NOT a People Pleaser, I just want everybody to be happy at MY own expense”

TRANSPARENCY

I won't lie, my most favourite part of having any conversations with people is when the conversation switches from surface level talk to real talk. Our generation is SO OVER the fake, blah blah blah superficial, surface level talk. Seriously how boring is that ? What our heart longs for is real connection and what… Continue reading TRANSPARENCY

Desperately Seeking A Mentor #WillYouMentorMe?

Ok, I am not going to sugar-coat this at all : Millenials in church today are desperately seeking a mentor & them not having one is one of the biggest reasons why Millenials vote with their feet and LEAVE church. This is no different in their work life, according to Forbes ...companies that are known… Continue reading Desperately Seeking A Mentor #WillYouMentorMe?

5 Reasons Why Millennials Struggle With This Thing Called “Christian Dating”

Let's be honest people......THE STRUGGLE IS REAL OUT HERE! Christian millennials dating today have to face so many things that previous generations did not have to face, making dating today MUCH MORE DIFFICULT than before!! From getting ghosted (*when someone you like disappears without explanation) to awkward endless coffee dates, why has finding "The One"… Continue reading 5 Reasons Why Millennials Struggle With This Thing Called “Christian Dating”

3 Painful Lessons To Be Learnt From Catfish

I can't even lie, CATFISH is fast becoming my favourite new TV show to watch! How have I seriously missed out on this show till season 6! The depth of emotions felt & levels of deceit exposed makes this show absolutely addictive !!! And let's be honest our hearts absolutely go out to the hopefuls… Continue reading 3 Painful Lessons To Be Learnt From Catfish

How To Deal With The Heartbreak Of Getting Unfollwed On Social Media ! 

  Getting Unfollwed on social media SUCKS! Or does it really ? I mean hey why does something like this affect some people really badly and on the other hand not affect other people at all? Recently I received this rather interesting text message below after unfollowing an individual :     I was absolutely dumbfounded at… Continue reading How To Deal With The Heartbreak Of Getting Unfollwed On Social Media ! 

Breaking Up With Being Broke ! 

Being broke sucks people and millennials these days are unfortunately living in broke.com Finances are rarely discussed amongst friends and they are usually a big SECRET amongst peers. It's strange isn't it? We discuss a lot of things freely but are very uncomfortable to discuss this very topic. I believe if we did we would… Continue reading Breaking Up With Being Broke ! 

ZERO “What Ifs” 

What Ifs suck people!!! Like majorly suck ! What If I had taken that chance ? What If I had applied for that job ? What If I had written that book ? What If I had said yes ? What If I had joined the gym ? What If I had stepped out ?… Continue reading ZERO “What Ifs” 

10 Unbelievable Pictures That Capture Why I Adore Being A Midwife! 

Well HELLO x As I close off 2016 a lot has happened in my world as a midwife! From unforgettable homebirths, ambulance transfers into hospital to seeing some of my previous babies as toddlers. Midwifery, though a demanding & challenging job in the UK is still one of the most rewarding jobs out there! I… Continue reading 10 Unbelievable Pictures That Capture Why I Adore Being A Midwife! 

“I Suck At Fashion… HELP” Guest Blog Post by Indah Vidyana

Hello you X Let me introduce myself. I'm a city girl who drinks her coffee black and LOVES fashion. With love I mean I really love clothes and accessories. I am someone who absolutely loves styling and putting outfits together! There is a quote that many may not know by famous French designer called Gabrielle Bonheur Chanel… Continue reading “I Suck At Fashion… HELP” Guest Blog Post by Indah Vidyana